What doesn't break you only makes you stronger .

A person once told me, "Being in a relationship is not hard, but maintaining a good relationship is." 

So, what defines as a "good relationship"?

I have no definition of it, nor do I know what it means. Henry and I fight a lot, over the stupidest things sometimes. But in the end, we pull through. But whenever we fight, people automatically think that, " Oh they fight a lot, they must have a bad relationship. " But its not true, at least I don't think it is. 

For my preference, I like a honest and comfortable relationship. Where I can be as disgusting as I want without thinking about what my boyfriend thinks of me. Hence why I burp in front of Henry's face all the time =p 

Awhile ago, I was out at a late night coffee session with two of my closest friends, a guy and a girl. Both currently in relationships. And we had a really interesting conversation. The guys been in his currently relationship for over 1 and a half years, and the girl is currently kind of in one of those on and off relationships, for almost 1/2 year. 

As we talked about our relationships, I realised that its not the amount of time that people's been together that matters. Its the feeling, like .. " It's quality, not quantity." My guy friend hardly sees his misses where as my girl friend sees her mister daily. 

My guy friend complains about not seeing her enough while my girl friend complains about how she's kind of sick of him.

So where do I stand in my relationship? I see Henry a few times a week, and we fight almost on a weekly basis. Over stupid stuff at times. Sometimes big, sometimes small. He gets on my nerves with his actions while I tend to piss him off with my continuous nagging and whining. 

If there was a healthy relationship rating-o-meter, I wonder where my would stand?

random blog. Just jotting down thoughts.

Toodles,

Jenny.